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August life updates ||Taking Stock #4

Wow people, August has finished finally. What a relief! *sighs*
This particular month felt so slow to me —exceptionally slow. Compared to the past months. I honestly think it's because I'm hitching to complete my one year mandatory youth service to my country, I talked about it on my last taking stock post here on the blog. I feel like I'm being caged up in one position and everything has been on a vicious circle for almost a year now. I'm just tired of the repetition lifestyle. Anyway enough of my ranting. How was the month of August for you? I hope this month ended well for you as I love you so much to wish you bad.

6 Actionable tips: How to make and maintain friendship with your kind

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Hello ladies, how are you doing? Good? Okay!
I'm doing just fine in case you're wondering.
So, in my last blog post I talked about why it's okay not to have legions or cliques of friends. which was the part one of this post, please read it here so that you can catch up on what I am writing about today. Thank you.

 As promised, that I was going to share 6 actionable tips on how you can make and maintain friendship with your kind. I have learnt that these tips work for me over the years in life.  I sincerely believe that they will work for you too, ladies.

5 Reasons why you should not make friends with everybody ( but with a few)

When I was in high school, I wanted to make friends with the bubbling girls on campus but it never possible because I was different. Not just that, but I was unique in my own ways. I always wondered why it came so natural for other girls to make friends easily with other people who were either their kind or not.


As young women, figuring out the various ways or methods to remain youthful, maintain ones glow and natural beauty is usually a very daunting task.  Some young women end up going through the trial and error phase, some depend on suggestions from friends, the list is endless.
Today, I am here to share with you seven ultimate age-defying techniques that you should be using as a young woman.

life and living(July updates #3)|| taking stock

Hi family! I'm so excited that we have come to the end of July sound and safe. So I thought to myself why not write another bonding post such as this just to fill you guys in on my progress in life? It's one of my favorite posts to write because I usually feel like I'm having a physical heart warming gist with you my awesome readers. So in the spirit of bonding, here you go!!

Series|| Thoughts to steer by

Has life given you a raw deal? As we enter say good bye to the month of July. Here are some things you brace your mind with in other to manifest your most desired success.

Let's proceed.

The mystery blogger award

Hi friends, I have missed you guys and this space. I feel like it's been ages since I last bonded with you guys here, but it hasn't been too long has it? Thank goodness I am here now, lol.
How have you been so far? Is the month July fair to you? If not keep trying, there is victory ahead.

Let's dig into today's post.


Hello Fam, how have you been? Very well I guess, Yes?  But incase you are going through some storms of life right now, where ever you are, know this —God is not done with you yet, He hasn't forgotten about you, He is still faithful even at the dire minute, He will still work wonders. God is still in the business of fulfilling His promises in the lives of His children, You —yes you!


You have to know that God handed to everyone his/her purpose in life and however we choose to achieve our dreams and purposes in life is not yours to determine. For we walk the sands of time through different paths.

Dear society, 

It is not normal that as women, we live our lives in constant fear of what the society will think of us if we deviate from the cultures, norms and traditions of our society. 



Hey, beautiful people how have you been? So the month of June has finally come to an end and I thought I should share with you what went down in my  personal/blogging life in June.


The students of the community secondary school, Akparabong, Ikom, Cross River State. 
Indecent dressing is a common problem in the society today especially by the youths.
To be indecently dressed means to deliberately expose ones body to the public, either to attract or not to attract attentions).
This attitude is not accommodated by the cultures and traditions of our society, specifically the Nigerian society and also in Africa.